5th Dec 2008

16:48

he goes out , slamming the door. Returns soon and slams the door again

 

19:39

Within 5 minutes of entering the kitchen, he emerges from his room, goes out the front door, returning soon after.

6th Dec

04:30

I am unable to breath – have to open my window (which is great because I have to get up at 0600 to go to work)

 

15:40

He goes out , slamming the door. Returns within 20 seconds and slams the door again

 

15:43

He goes out slamming the door, returns again within 20 secs, slamming the door again (i.e. a repeat of the action 3 minutes beforehand.

 

17:10

He comes in, slamming the door

 

19:47

he slams the door

7th Dec

06:58

Woken up by door slamming

 

08:54

Door slams

 

08:56

Door slams

 

11:37

Enter kitchen but within 1 minute, he exits his room and goes out, returning soon after

8th Dec

 

 

9th Dec

06:55

Very half-hearted attempt to shut the door properly

 

18:22

Door slams

10th Dec

16:15

Get in from work and the place reeks to high heaven of burnt toast

 

16:38

He goes out, slamming the door, returning within 2 minutes and slamming the door again

11th Dec

17:04

He goes out, slamming the door, returning within a minute and slamming the door again

 

20:55

He goes out, slamming the door, returning within a minute and slamming the door again

12th Dec

16:30

Come in from work – to be greeted by the smell of a dirty oven on gas mark 9 (i.e. full on at maximum)

 

16:38

He goes out, slamming the door, returning within a minute and slamming the door again

 

19:35

door slams

15th Dec

22:05

door slams twice within 5 seconds (while I was in bed)

16th Dec

06:58

woken up by door slamming

 

13:02

door slams

17th Dec

16:40

get in for work, then decide to get some food but soon (16:50), he appears and goes out the front door, slamming it as he goes. He returns within 2 minutes and slams it again.

 

19:00

I make a cup of tea - within the 20 seconds that it takes to pour the water and milk etc., he manages to make an appearance in the kitchen, for no apparent purpose

18th Dec

0420

difficulty in breathing – need to open the window

19th Dec

1815

10 minutes after getting in from work, make myself as cup of tea but after 30 seconds or so of entering the kitchen, he appears in the kitchen for no apparent reason

 

1843

door slams

20th Dec

17:06

Get in from work, complete with shopping. Enter kitchen to store shopping and make a cup of tea. Before that is completed the bully appears in the kitchen for no apparent reason, then exits thru the front door, slamming it, only to return a short time later

21st Dec

12:46

He comes in, slamming the door

 

12:48

He goes out, slamming the door, only to return all of 10 seconds later, slamming the door again

 

21:05

door slams, and again soon after as he returns

23rd Dec

16:55

He goes out slamming the door, returning a minute later with another slam

24th Dec

03:30

Finding it hard to breathe – needed to open the window

Xmas

 

at times like this, it really brings home what a filthy, disgusting state the kitchen is in. I have never encountered such a dire situation before. Previously any drop in ‘standards’ has produced a rebuke from the landlord – the same landlords would never tolerate such a situation as we have. The bully presumably can’t believe his luck – he must surely have received much criticism in the past for his bone-idle slovenly attitudes, and he must know that he would receive this same criticism anywhere else – but  against all the odds he has landed somewhere where he can get away with it. And it is not just his lazy attitude he can get away with – he can actually physical attack fellow tenants and get away with that as well, despite receiving a criminal record for so doing.

 

Xmas

 

A new vacuum cleaner appears but it doesn’t work – our place has seems to have taken on the feature of a storing place for broken vacuum cleaners

27th Dec

21:00

The bully announces his arrival by slamming the door

 

21:07

he goes out, slamming the door

 

21:17

he returns, slamming the door

28th Dec

Morn.

The fridge, which contains an not inconsiderable amount of my own food, stinks of curry, i..e. the remnants of a curry meal have been put in the fridge while still warm

 

10:15

He goes out slamming the door, returning about 5 seconds later, slamming the door again

 

10:24

He goes out slamming the door, returning about 5 seconds later, slamming the door again (i.e. an exact repeat of his performance 9 minutes beforehand)

 

10:27

He goes out, slamming the door but this times stays out for about a minute before returning and slamming the door again

 

11:50

door slams

 

13:12

door slams

 

16:32

come in and decide to make myself a cup of tea. Before I have been in the kitchen for about two minutes (SURPRISE, SURPRISE!!), he appears and does his by-now usual trick of disappearing out the front door, slamming it as he goes coming back within a minute slamming it again, by which time I have made sure that I am not on the wrong side of a violent bully and the relative safety of my room

 

18:18

door slams

 

18:37

door slams

 

19:56

door slams

 

20:10

door slams

 

20:35:

door slams

29th Dec

16:29

door slams

 

18:30

enter kitchen but within 3 minutes the bully does his usual trick appearing, exiting the front door slamming it, returning about a minute later slamming it again

 

18:32

Unusual sequence involving 5 door slams within about 20 seconds, with a minute gap before another. After another minute, we have another slam followed by another shortly after (8 slams in all – might have been more but basically lost count)

 

19:50

door slams followed by another slam a minute later as he returns

 

20:40

door slams

 

22:17

door slams (while I am in bed)




30th Dec

14:48

Come in from work and enter kitchen. Within three minutes, the bully exits his room and odes his usual trick of disappearing out the front door slamming it as he goes, returning about a minute later

 

19:44

door slams

 

20:56

door slams

31st Dec

14:36

Get in from work and decide to get some food. 5 minutes later, he appears and does his usual trick (as mentioned in first item)

 

14:51

door slams

 

20:48

door slams

 

22:51

enter kitchen – the first time since getting in from work. Three minutes later he appears and does his ‘usual trick’

 

22:58

door slams

1st Jan 2009

07.24

day off gets off to a good start when woken up by door slamming

 

10:12

door slams

 

10:50

door slams

 

13:47

enter kitchen to get some food. This times it takes three minutes before Vincett performs his ‘usual trick’

 

16:02

door slams

 

20:47

door slams

 

23:55

closes his own door as though it is the middle of the day

2nd Jan

14:36

get in from work, enter kitchen but within three minutes the bully executes his ‘usual trick’

 

20:36

door slams

3rd Jan

13:20

get in from work and effectively get the door ‘slammed in my face’ as the bully slams it within 10 seconds of me arriving home

 

15:49

door slams as he goes out the door, returning about a minute later

4th Jan

09:42

door slams

6th Jan 2009

02:40

difficulty in breathing, such that I had no option but to open the window (as though it wasn’t cold enough already)

 

16:40

enter kitchen, but the bully executes his ‘usual trick’, - double door-slamming etc. etc.

 

23:45

difficulty in breathing – need to open window

7th Jan

19:21

door slams, and then again about a minute later

10th Jan

14:00

get in from work and clean sink area but within 30 minutes messed up again a manner that I can only think is deliberate

11th Jan

11:00

stink of what I can only describe as ‘burnt metal’ which persists for several hours

 

16:42

enter kitchen to make a cup of tea – before I have finished he does his ‘usual trick’ (double door slamming etc.

 

18:45

had cleaned the sink area at 16:42, but it is now messed up again in a manner that I can only think is deliberate

12th Jan

13:21

double door slam (within 1 minute)

 

13:24

double door slam (within 1 minute)

 

13:26

double door slam (within 1 minute)

 

13:28

double door slam (within 1 minute)

 

13:29

double door slam (within 1 minute)

 

13:30

double door slam (within 1 minute)

 

13:31

double door slam (within 1 minute)

 

13:35

double door slam (within 1 minute)

 

13:39

door slam

 

14:40

double door slam (within 1 minute of each other)

 

16:29

double door slam (within 1 minute of each other)

 

20:01

door slams

 

20:12

door slams

15th Jan

06:49

woken up by door slamming

 

16:05

front door open

 

16:49

return home – front door open

 

19:14

door wide open – just what we need in this weather

 

20:38

enormous draught – on investigation caused by the front door being open by about 20 cms or so

16th Jan

07:15

door wide open

 

17:56

double door slamming

 

21:59

door slams

 

22:05

door slams

17th Jan

09:17

door slams

 

10:19

door slams

 

10:34

enter kitchen. This time he excels himself and does his ‘usual trick’ within 10 seconds, exiting the front door and returning about a minute later, slamming the door both times

18th Jan

12:25

Hoover the landing, which seems to set the bully into a real wobbly. He appears right on cue, acts in weird and threatening manner, eventually does his ‘usual trick’ with double door slamming within a minute of each other and within a few minutes the place starts to get assaulted by an evil smell (god knows what it was) which obviously hung around for ages. And I am expected to pay good money in rent for all this!!!!! (for a nice restful Sunday - day  of relaxation)

20th Jan

04:10

difficulty breathing

 

10:34

Return home and decide to get some breakfast. Within 2 minutes, he exits his room and does his ‘usual trick’

 

17:20

door slams

21st Jan

06:00

difficulty breathing

23rd Jan

04:30

difficulty  breathing

24th Jan

11:35

enter kitchen to make some food, but after 3 minutes he does his ‘usual trick’

27th Jan

21:17

door slams

 

21:26

door slams

30th Jan

21:08

door slams

 

21:17

door slams

31st Jan

17:30

door slams

 

17:33

door slams

1st Feb 2009

15:44

door slams

 

21:25

door slams

 

22:10

had gone to bed at 21:30 so slamming at this time of night is especially unwelcome

2nd Feb

16:36

come in from work. enter kitchen to make a meal – after about 4 minutes, he does his usual threatening trick, door slamming etc.

4th Feb

19:36

door slams, followed by another slam within one minute

3rd Feb

 

Receive three calls from someone blocking their own number – 1) on my answerphone   2) on 1471    3) at 20:50, after I had just gone to bed, the caller being on long enough for me to hear a radio or TV in the background

 

 

 

5th Feb

22:25

after a day at work in the cold and an evening out of the house, I return home but in the process of making my second cup of coffee, the bully performs his ‘usual trick’ of exiting his room and double-door slamming

7th Feb

19:08

double door slamming, within a minute of each other

8th Feb

08:44

door slams

 

20:19

this time he excels himself again – I have only been in the kitchen for 10 seconds before he does his ‘usual trick’, including double-door slamming etc.

10th Feb

17:53

double door slamming (within 1 minute of each other)

 

21:15

door while not exactly slammed, is shut far too loud considering I am in bed

11th Feb

20:42

enter kitchen to prepare some food – before kettle has boiled the bully makes an appearance, and this time actually enters the kitchen. Make a hasty exit

 

2044

door slams

 

2053

door slams

12th Feb

08:16

door slams

 

12:36

return home and decide to make myself some food. Before the kettle has boiled, the bully exits his room and does his ‘usual trick’ , complete with double door-slamming

 

16:18

double door-slamming

13th Feb

16:56

door shut too loudly

 

20:03

double door-slamming, within a minute of each other

 

20:06

door slams

 

21:16

door slams – since I was already in bed (since before nine), as the bully in all probability knew very well

 

22:12

door closed much too loudly

14th Feb

15:28

double door slamming

 

16:00

door slams

 

19:48

door slams

 

19:52

door slams

 

22:49

door slams

15th Feb

07:10

woken up by door slamming

 

11:36

door slams

 

14:24

double door-slamming (within 20 seconds of each other)

 

19:20

double door-slamming (within 1 minute of each other)

16th Feb

15:42

door slams

 

15:47

door slams

 

16:32

make myself a cup of tea but before the kettle has boiled, the bully appears and enters the kitchen to (very coincidentally) boil a kettle also…. followed immediately by

 

16:32

double door-slamming

 

20:45

door slams

17th Feb

22:30

place starts to stink of fat

18th Feb

07:02

woken up by door slamming

 

about 11

big argument with the landlord. The bully responds by telling me to ‘fuck off’, (no idea that he has done anything wrong at all). On my way out down the stairs, I think he is following me, but he is just engaging in his common habit of slamming the door (and displaying the fact that he knows full well how much his door-slamming is upsetting)

 

12:55

Arrive back home, and almost immediately (i.e. literally within 5 seconds, the bully appears and does his double door-slamming (within 1 minute of each other). Again a display of how much he realises that his double door-slamming is upsetting Why exactly is he engaging in double door slamming anyway – why is someone exhibiting this highly unusual behaviour being given house room?

 

13:30

double door-slamming (within about 30 seconds of each other)

 

14:01

door slams

 

14:04

door slams

 

14:45

door slams

 

18:32

double door-slamming

 

19:39

double door-slamming

 

21:33

double door-slamming (while I was in bed)

19th Feb

16:36

Arrive home and make myself some food (sandwiches again) – been in the kitchen for about a minute before the bully appears (and fills the sink with dirty dishes).  Suffer some abuse and then end up getting told to ‘fuck off’ – just what I need when I get home at the end of the working day.

 

16:58

double door-slamming

 

17:39

double door-slamming

20th Feb

15:21

get in from work and decide to make some food. this time I did just manage the kettle to boil before we had …..double door-slamming

 

17:42

door slams

 

19:30

door slams

21st Feb

14:55

actually managed to make myself a cup of tea after coming in from work before.. he appears and does his usual door slamming. Although this time he returns after three minutes and closes the door much quieter.

 

18:00

potential double door-slamming, except when coming back within 1 minute, he closed the door properly

 

18:50

door slams

22nd Feb

07:02

door shut far too loudly

 

11:57

door slams

 

14:58

double door-slamming (a couple of minutes after putting something in the microwave, although I was not in the kitchen at the time)

 

16:28

door slams

 

17:21

entered kitchen, followed a few minutes later by double door-slamming (although I had managed to make a cup of tea (just))

 

18:48

door shut too loudly, i.e. not a full-scale slam but still made me jump

 

20:50

enter kitchen to fetch ironing board and hoover. Almost immediately he appears, goes out the fron door, slamming it

 

21:01

door slams

 

21:38

double door-slamming

23 Feb

17:52

door slams

 

20:00

door slams

26th Feb

15:20

arrive back from work and decide to make myself a cup of tea. Before the kettle has boiled, he exits from his room and the front door, returning about 60 seconds later, by which time I am ‘safely’  back in my room.

3rd Mar

15:30

Arrive home from work, as usual just looking forward to getting something to eat. Make the mistake of trying to use microwave instead of just grabbing a sandwich. the bully goes ’berserk’, walking around in a very threatening manner, exiting the front door five times within about 10 minutes or so, each time staying outside only for about 60 seconds. 

 

19:30

decide to make myself something else to eat. almost immediately the bully appears (i.e. within 30 seconds). as per usual he exits the front door, returning within 60 seconds.

4th Mar

12:35

return home only to find the bully fiddling with the lock on the front door (or doing something weird anyway). Receive abuse. So in concert with events yesterday evening, this is turning into a really good day off, just like other days off have turned into ‘nightmares’ also – what quality of life I have!!!

5th Mar

04:00

front door closes (although the slamming has been ended, the door still shuts loud enough to wake me up in the night). Obviously I suspect this was a deliberate act – he didn’t actually exit the door

 

05:45

get up to go to work but at that very moment, the bully enters the bathroom (i.e. at the exact time that I normally enter the bathroom).

10th Mar

22:45

several comings and goings out of the front door – although we have a quieter time during the day, I think the bully has realised that the door now shuts far too loudly for night-time (especially since by this time I am in bed (as he well knows)

13th Mar

16:45

make the mistake of staying in the kitchen for a few minutes – the bully appears and exits the front door returning about 60 seconds later

15th Mar

18:10

enter kitchen – almost immediately the bully appears, exits the front door returning 60 seconds later

19th Mar

16:38

Get in from work, have time to make one cup of tea, but while making the second, the bully appears goes out the front door, re-appearing 60 seconds later

20th Mar

03:13

woken up by the bully letting his door close as though it was the middle of the day

22nd Mar

1435

The tranquillity of a nice spring day broken by an unpleasant smell of burning. A short while later, I realise that he has taken a  full-size (i.e. family type) , half-burnt pie out of the oven and put it straight into the fridge

 

17:00

Enter the kitchen with intention of making a meal, but within 2 minutes (before the kettle has even boiled) the bully appears and does his ‘usual trick’ of exiting the front door etc. etc.

24th Mar

16:00

as usual, make myself something to eat after coming in from work. Put something in the microwave for about 10 minutes. After about 5 minutes has passed, the bully appears and adopts his ‘usual’ unusual threatening behaviour – he exits the front door four times within as many minutes, returning within a minute each time (the last time he was out there for about 10 seconds). After I had finished, he was still strolling around – finally he entered the kitchen. When I went in there after finishing my meal (and after being sure he had gone), I found he had piled his dirty dishes in the sink (and obviously just walked off).

 

19:30

my room starts to stink of fat. Have to open window and seal up door as best as I can. Later investigation shows no window open in kitchen.

29th Mar

17:00

Just as it was getting unpleasantly cold, the place fills with an unpleasant fatty smell, leaving me between the devil and the deep blue sea – I couldn’t possibly open the window in those temperatures. About three hours latter enter the kitchen – there is a window slightly open but I could still smell the fat unmistakeably

30th Mar

20:30

Place fills with an unpleasant burning smell

31st Mar

15:30

get in from work, grab a few things from the kitchen in order to make sandwiches in my room (as is standard practice nowadays). A few minutes after I had entered the kitchen, the bully appears, exits the front door returning within a minute

 

21:00

make myself a cup of tea etc. Before I have finished, the bully exits his room, exits the front door, returning within a minute

2nd April

23:37

Woken up by the front door closing, it closes again with a minute. Almost immediately have problems with breathing, so end up the very exact opposite of fast asleep (as I had just been)

3rd April

19:15

Enter kitchen to make a cup of tea. Almost immediately, he exits his room, exits the front door

5th April

12:46

Enter kitchen to make a sandwich. Before I had finished, he does his usual trick, exits his room and then the front door, returning within a minute

 

17:56

Enter the kitchen again (first since 12:46). Within 90 seconds, he exits his room, then the front door, returning within a minute

 

19:01

Enter kitchen to make another cup of tea. This time manage to make a cup before he appears, but he does appear about 60 seconds later, goes out and comes back in within a minute (additionally there seems to be another feature occurring – the constant smell of something ‘sickly’ in the air all the time (like a deodorant or similar)

6th April

16:25

Get in at about 16:10. Enter kitchen about 16:15 to make myself more than just the usual sandwiches.. This time he unusually takes as long as 10 minutes before he starts his usual nonsense, by which time I had almost finished.

9th April

16:37

Arrive home from work and enter kitchen to make myself a ‘proper meal’ for a change. On this occasion have to wait the unusually long period of 10 minutes before the bully does his usual trick of exiting his room and the front door, returning about a minute later (I am in my room waiting for the microwave to do its work). The bully then enters bathroom. Exiting my room to get my food, there is a strong smell of something like deodorant in the air, and I notice he has piled his dirty dishes in the sink. Five seconds after entering the kitchen, he exits his room and enters the bathroom again. 

 

1900-2000

about four or five ‘exitings’ of the front door only to return about a minute later (furthermore the landing lights are blazing away constantly all this time (see previous sheet regarding the wobbly thrown by the bully demanding that both lights are installed ))  .

 

21:25

enter kitchen to make a cup of tea – he exits his room, goes out of front door, returning within a minute.

11th April

16:30

Enter kitchen – the sink is full with his dirty dishes (and the lights on the landing are blazing away)

 

20:20

make a cup of tea – lights still blazing away on landing and dirty dishes still in sink

 

23:20

dirty dishes finally gone, but lights still blazing away

12th April

19:45

Unpleasant burning smell – need to open window despite the temperature not being too high

 

22:03

enter kitchen to make a cup of tea. He immediately exits his room and the front door, returning soon after (lights are still blazing away on then landing)

13th April

07:00

landing lights still blazing away after obviously being on all night

 

13:22

entered kitchen to make a cup of tea – after about a minute he exits his room and the front door, returning shortly

14th April

23:20

woken up by door closing

17th April

03:50

woken up by door closing (and almost immediately found it difficult to breathe – had to open window)

 

0545

landing lights blazing away (obviously been on all night)

18th April

0240

woken up by door closing

19th April

0845

had just given the kitchen a clean – the bully almost immediately puts his dirty dishes in the sink and leaves them there – where they stayed for a few hours)

20th April

0450

woken up by ‘someone’ walking around, complete with door closing at far end as though it was the middle of the day.  When I get up the landing lights are blazing away.

 

22:30

woken up by door closing, which was repeated about 22:55

21st April

16:00

get home from work to be greeted by smell of ‘burning metal’

22nd April

01:33

woken up by door closing

24th April

01:25

woken up by door closing

 

11:55

woken up by door closing

25th April

16:40

make myself a cup of tea – before the kettle has boiled the bully exits his room, locks it and enters the kitchen

26th April

10:50

vacuum the landing – the bully appears, exits the front door, re-appearing about a minute later

27th April

22:55

woken up by door closing, as it does again a minute later

28th April

00:30

woken up by door closing loudly (presumably bathroom)

 

15:30

arrive home from work, make myself a meal but before I finish, the bully appears and doers his usual threatening act – exiting the front door and coming back a minute later

 

17:30

decide to make myself a cup of tea but before the kettle has boiled, the bully appears, exits the front door, re-appearing about a minute later

29th April

12:21

enter kitchen with the intention of making some food – within 30 seconds he appears and enters the kitchen himself

 

23:45

woken up by door closing – and almost immediately find it difficult to breathe, and have to open window

30th April

00:55

woken up by door closing loudly at the far end of the flat (or might have still been awake after the above experience)

1st May

14:30

come in from work and enter kitchen to make a meal. After about 5 minutes, the bully does his ‘usual trick’. Since I have just come in from work, I do not rush off straight away but stay in kitchen to prepare food. He goes back to his room for a few minutes later but then enters the kitchen himself (at which point I  had more or less finished)

 

18:35

enter kitchen to make a cup of tea, but before the kettle had boiled, he appears and does his ‘usual trick’

3rd May

17:00

exit my room to collect my washing. The bully is in the kitchen and proceeds to give me a torrent of abuse., with plenty of ‘fuckings’ etc. Yet another day off ruined. Furthermore, I had assigned this day to study mathematics – my concentration has now been destroyed. My washing is still in the kitchen

 

19:45

enter kitchen to get my washing and to get some food (quickly). After about 60 seconds he exits his room and does his ‘usual trick’, shouting out ‘you fucking prick’ at me as he went past the kitchen  (incidentally I couldn’t help notice that my kettle had been unplugged etc. which only awakes fears of what he might also be doing to my food supplies in general)

 

22:36

make myself a cup of tea. The kettle had just boiled by the time he decided to make his usual appearance

 

22:40

about 5 minutes after the last incident, there is an incredibly strong smell of something like deodorant, just the thing to get on my chest and start making me breathless

4th May

14:46

enter kitchen. almost immediately (within about 10 secs), the bully exits his room and does his ‘usual trick’ of exiting the front door, returning about a minute later

 

22:40

woken up by door closing

 

23:36

woken up by door closing

5th May

05:30

lights blazing away on landing

6th May

05:30

landing lights blazing away

 

15:30

arrive home to …dishes in the sink

7th May

05:30

landing lights on

 

16:10

arrive home after along day complete with train delays. Make myself some food, within 5 minutes the bully appears, piles a load of dirty dishes in the sink and walks off.

8th May

15:45

nasty smell of fat permeates the place, and stays around for some time

 

19:45

performance with deodorant spray being sprayed around. He then goes out, coming back shortly and immediately starts spraying again (within 2 or 3 seconds of re-entering the flat)

 

22:50

nasty cooking smells in my room – so at a time when I might expect to be asleep, I have to get up and open the window.

9th May

14:45

performance with ‘spray’ again

 

15:15

yet another squirt from the spray

 

19:15

enter kitchen to make a meal. After a few minutes, the bully does his usual trick. Then when he realizes I am still cooking food in the microwave, he decides he wants to use the microwave as well, so while I am ‘trapped’ in my room, unwilling to enter the kitchen while he is there, he takes my food from the microwave and starts using it himself (raising fears for my food and all the things he could do to it).

10th May

20:30

day of rest comes a classic end as the bully absolutely stinks the place out with some rancid fatty aroma

12th May

12:40

The cooker is on at ‘Gas Mark 10’ (i.e. higher than the maximum graduation of Mark 9), inducing the typical smell into the place , yet again

15th May

22:48

woken up by door closing

17th May

11:42

enter kitchen to make a cup of tea. Within 30 seconds, the bully follows me in. He proceeds to stink the place out. By 12:30, the smell was really bad.(despite me stopping my door up as much as possible)

 

16:30

enter kitchen to make a meal. within 10 seconds the bully exits his room and does his usual threatening ‘trick’ of exiting the front door, returning about a minute later

 

19:12

enter kitchen to make a cup of tea. Before kettle has boiled, he exits his room and does his ‘usual trick’.

18th May

15:30

get home and start to make meal. On re-entering kitchen, it seems obvious that both the microwave and kettle have been switched off. Switch them back on, at which point the bully immediately appears and switches them off. I switch them back on again, only for them to be switched off again. This time I find that my meal had been thrown in the bin.. This was followed by a period of abuse and several hours of loud music, ‘comings and goings’ through the front door

19th May

04:45

woken up by door closing

 

05:30

get up a quarter of an hour early because I’m afraid that he might decide to enter the bathroom by the time I normally do. When I exit the bathroom and am re-entering my room , he exits his room.

 

22:20

very strong smell of fat and bacon

20th May

about 20:00

usual aroma entering the place from the oven being on at about Gas Mark 8

21st May

13:43

get back from work. Make myself a meal but after about 4 minutes, he appears and does his ‘usual trick’. On his return I am still in the kitchen so he enters to get a glass of water, and then he decides to make a meal himself.

24th May

18:00

enter kitchen to make a cup of tea. Within a short time, he appears and does his ‘usual trick’ (twice as it happens because I was actually in my room while the kettle boiled). when he notices that I still have my door open, he enters the kitchen and proceeds to stink the place out with fat and bacon.

25th May

00:30

very strong smell of burnt toast – necessary to get up and open the window, despite which the smell is still around an hour later

 

17:43

enter kitchen to prepare meal – very simple ploughman’s lunch. Before kettle has boiled, the bully appears and does his ‘usual trick’

 

19:25

place starts to stink of fat and bacon despite having my door shut and blocked up; necessary to open windows despite which the smell hangs around for a considerable time

 

21:35

enter kitchen to make a cup of tea. before kettle has boiled he appears and enters kitchen

26th May

19:05

enter kitchen to make meal – within ¾ minutes he enters the kitchen and starts making a meal himself, absolutely stinking the place out into the process

 

19:20

enter kitchen to make a dessert – he immediately exits his room

27th May

05:45

landing lights blazing away

 

16:40

return form work, wet and cold. Enter kitchen to make meal/hot drink. Time taken for the stalker to do his usual trick : 3 minutes (The ‘usual’ trick being his threatening behaviour of exiting his room, disappearing through the front door, returning about a minute later). All day, all I have been thinking of is how nice it would be to return home and get a nourishing meal and how this is an experience not allowed me

4th June

05:46

landing lights blazing away

 

18:30

oven on, on ‘gas mark 10’ (i.e. full on)

5th June

period around 01:00

woken up by someone moving around

10th June

2000

smell of burning toast

13th June

0450

woken up by someone moving around, about 0500 someone goes through the front door but returns soon after. more moving around until finally goes out about 0515

 

ca. 1300

return from work and prepare some food. After about 5 minutes, he does his ‘usual trick’, i.e. appearing and exiting the front door re-appearing about a minute later.

14th June

1410

take a break from work marking exam papers and make myself something to eat. About 5 minutes after entering the kitchen, he does his ’usual trick’

 

1930

enter kitchen to make some food – within 5 minutes the stalker does his usual trick.

 

1930 onwards

although I had cleared out of the kitchen immediately he appeared, he notices that I still have my door open so he opens his own door and plays loud music

 

11:30

in bed – but his music still very audible

15th June

0230

someone moving around

 

0530

landing lights blazing away

16th June

0530

landing lights blazing away

 

1530

arrive home – enter kitchen and it takes about three minutes before he does his usual trick. On returning he leaves his door open (it was closed when I came home) and turns his TV on loud..

17th June

0700

landing lights blazing away

 

1245

he realizes I have my door open (held open about 10 cm by a pack of tea). He opens his own door and starts playing loud music

 

1800

start marking A-Levels papers, after being subjected to loud music for hours (which still continues). Would love to open my door to reduce the temperature. Go to bed at 2300, and his noise is still audible

18th June

0530

landing lights blazing away

19th June

0530

landing lights blazing away

 

1635

return home from work and make some food. The stalker does his usual trick within 5 minutes

20th June

0430

landing lights blazing away

 

1900

After marking exam papers for 5 hours, enter kitchen. Within two minutes, he decides to enter the kitchen and start making some food himself.

23rd june

0430

landing lights blazing away

 

2210

woken up by door closing (followed by the door closing again ain about a minute)

24th jun

0430

landing lights on

 

1550

enter kitchen after a really strenuous day, needing both food and plenty6 of drink. The stalker does his usual trick (i.e. his usual threatening behaviour) within 5 minutes.

25th June

1600

The general plan was this : leave for work at 0500 in the morning, arrive back at about 1600, refresh myself and relax for about 30 mins (which would probably not be enough given the ‘exhausting’ temperatures during the day) and then settle down to mark A-Level Maths papers as the pressure to meet deadlines mount. In reality, after  about  5 minutes of getting home, the bully opens his door (it was shut when I came in) and starts playing loud music. As I re-enter my room, he starts issuing the most amazing abuse full of many ‘fuckings’ etc. I get referred to as a ‘fucking prick’ and such like names.

26th Jun

0430

landing lights still on

 

1500

arrive home from work. Within 2 minutes, he opens his door (it was closed when I entered) and strats playing loud music and then Wimbledon. It is so loud I can still hear it in my own room with the door shut.  Gets very warm, but unable to open the door and concentrate on my marking of exam papers simultaneously given the noise already mentioned.

27th June

0430

landing light still on

 

12:56

return home from work. within a minute he opens his door and starts playing loud music (the door was shut when I came in). Once again I would love to get some fresh air while marking exam papers – very warm! – but unable to do so for obvious reasons.

 

2100

becomes much too warm – need to open my door. Things are quite but soon the noise starts up again, and continues till at least half past midnight.

2nd July

0312

woken uo by door closing

 

0430

return from work, make myself some food – the stalker does his usual trick within 5 minutes

3rd July

0330

return home, enter kitchen – this time the stalker appears within 2 or 3 minutes. I need to have the door open a bit to cool down, but as soon as he sees this, he opens his own door and powers the TV really loud – it says loud until about 2130 – mysteriously ending within a couple of minutes of me closing my door (to go to bed). And through this, as always, he is continually prowling around – he is forever exiting the front door and returning within a minute.

 

2236

woken up by door closing

4th July

2309

woken up by door closing

5th July

1136

enter kitchen to make a sandwich. The stalker does his usual trick within 2 minutes.

6th July

1530

arrive home to find a ‘letter undelivered form’, i.e. the bully is in all the time but when someone rings the front door bell, he is too bone idle to get off his arse to answer it.

7th July

0132

woken up by door closing – the door closing again within 1 minute.

 

0530

landing lights still on

15th July

about 1600 onwards

dad left my door open, which is apparently a major offence. He leaves his door open while playing loud, goes in and out of the front door several times, various things said, which I mada a point of not listening to (fingers in wars).

16th July

1600

get home from work, enter kitchen. Almost immediately the bully slams his own door and enters the kitchen, exits the kitchen and then slams his own door once more and re-enters the kitchen and starts apparently making a meal for himself. Atmosphere very, very threatening – make my own exit immediately. He continues to prowl around, and as, I perceive later, has enacted one of the more ‘powerful’ of his weird threatening behaviour – i.e. using the washing machine to wash one single item. This is an action reserved for times when he becomes very threatening, So all in all, unable to get a satisfactory meal when I get home. THIS IS NO USE TO ME AT ALL!!!!!!

29th July

0130

woken up by door closing, it closes again within a minute

 

2325

woken up by door closing, it closes again within a minute

22nd July

0137

woken up by door closing, it closes again within a minute. If I  literary talents I could better describe the feeling of being deliberately woken up in the middle of the night, by the very same person who almost kicked my eye out.

 

0530

get up for work in a less than brilliant state

24th July

21.30 onwards

after going to bed, three separate exits and quick returns of the door within a short period (of about half an hour)

26th July

21:30

similar to above

27th July

1815

arrive home after working 9 hours without a break. definitely need food and a rest. exit door to get some milk from the fridge, which is outside, but door locks. Bang like hell on the door but no reply. As below, I learn that there was actually someone in at the time. Latterly I have come to the view that it is most likely that the door was deliberately closed on me – I can’t believe that the door locked due to anything I did – it is simple enough to put it on the latch. (repeated experimentation at leaving it on the latch have never again caused the door to lock)

 

1830 onwards

number of exits of front door and return within one minute, up to 2130: :  11 (eleven).

 

21:30

unable to get to sleep, awaiting the inevitable door closing (which didn’t actually happen as it happens, but kept me awake anyway).

28th July

1700 onwatds

number of exits of front door and return within one minute, up to 2130 : 9. But this time it did continue after I went to bed – the last one was at 23:00. Usual behaviour during the night – I went in the kitchen to boil water – within a minute, the bully exits his room and goes into the kitchen himself (although he has little reason to do so, given the state of it).

30th July

 

when ever he saw I had my door slightly open , he would start up loud TV/music. In fact, on one occasion although I shut my door the noise continued at ridiculous levels – I had to put my ear protectors on.

31st July

 

At 20:00 I go the fridge, he immediately exits his room and is close to the door when I re-enter. He physically pushes me and says ‘Move’.  (About 60 secs earlier I had also pretended to exit the door and he also had immediately exited his room but returned when he saw the door was ‘stuck’ and was slightly open   His behavior thus confirms my belief that he did lock the door on me on Monday the landlord seems to think I should expect to be treated like this!!! )  

2nd Aug

0729

real slam of the front door of the house itself

 

 

Later in the day, usual prowling around with many exits of the flat door – as a is the norm every day

4th Aug

1700

start to move out but bully starts prowling around, and then – despite the fact I am doing little more than loading my property into the van., the bully somehow manages to interpret this as an offence to him personally and on two separate occasions starts shouting full=scale abuse. Furthermore when he sees I have my door open, he opens his own door and starts playing loud music. This is developing into a replay of the evnts two years previously when I was doing little more tha move from one room to another and acted in a very similar manner, ending up with nearly kicking my eye out. It seems the only reason that could be stated for this attack was that I had my door open. Since it is developing a very sinister aspect I call things off earlier than wished, for the evening.

5th Aug

0230

since I can therefore perceive I am running late, I return early in the morning hoping to get some respite from the bully. Unfortunately, he starts prowling around again, causing me to rush thing, and probably wake up everyone in the house in the process

 

morning and afternoon

with the workmen and the landlord around the house, the bully’s strange behaviour is subdued but still present in some degree.

 

 

 

Postscript

 

On transporting my bike, I found the back mudguard was missing three of the four rods that attaches it to the wheel. Previously I had noticed that bothe front and back mudguard had lost one screw each, and then a rod from the back mudguard disappeared. Still I didn’t make the connection because I thought there was no way the bully could get into the back garden unobserved. But three of four rods, causing the back mudguard to fall off – this definitely no coincidence.  Previously I had written a nasty note to the landlord complaining about the state of the bike cover, it was dirty and ripped and I thought it was because of carelessness during works around the back. I think differently now – especially since no matter how hard I tried to cover my bike prpoperly, odds on was that next time I used my bike the cover would be half off, exposing the bike to the elements.  I realise now that the bully was well placed to notice when Rosemary from the Garden Flat was going out there was no reason for him to go round the back and I would be glad to hear from anyone who saw him back there.

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